My husband has told me many times that the male libido can be very sensitive. There have been times before where I have simply said, "Not there," and he has lost his erection. I have always understood that, but I've never actually grasped it.
Tonight I was watching "Sexual Healing" and as I watched the women in the relationships complain about sex (inside and outside the bedroom) I became disgusted and finally grasped what my husband means. Watching the women ruin a perfectly nice situation by nit-picking at their partners drove me crazy! I guess seeing it from an outside perspective really puts it into perspective for me that complaining or picking at little things during foreplay or sex can really diminish a man's desire.
My goal is to abstain from complaints during sex for the next 2 weeks. I want to make it a permanent thing, but I'm making a goal of 2 weeks and we'll see how I do. Can I break the curse that I'm finding most females have?
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