Independent Sex

Today I enjoyed pleasuring myself for the first time.

I was always taught that masturbation is terrible and that I should just let my man do the pleasuring, and up until now I have believed and lived by that. However, I decided to take a bath when I got home from work today and as I felt the warmth of the water all over me, I also felt my hand slipping down my stomach. As much reservation as I had, I allowed myself to touch and experiment. Before long (well, actually it was after about 5-10 minutes. I had to make up for lost time--finding the right places and touching them the right way), I had given myself an orgasm. It wasn't the best thing in the world. I know a lot of girls say that the best orgasm is the one you give to yourself, but as of now I have to disagree with that. It was interesting and fun to learn about my sexual area and give myself an orgasm, but until I further test the waters, I much prefer the touch of my hubby. I'm not bashing it though; it felt good and slightly empowering.

There's another sexual adventure checked off my list. I only have hundreds of other things to try still, but that's what makes sex so exciting (besides for the pleasure and amazing connection it induces)--there never seems to be an end to what we can try. On to the next people!